I’m a playful tease—flirty, sassy, sometimes bratty, but also sweet as hell. I can be a very good girl when I want to be, but don’t degrade me—praise me. I’m an exhibitionist who loves to show off my body, and I want to be ogled, admired, and appreciated.
I’m currently focused on learning to be a better sub. I love the idea of someone guiding me, dominating me without degrading me. If you’re nurturing, confident, patient, witty, and an excellent communicator, we’ll probably vibe. Pushy people need not apply. I take my time getting comfortable, and I’m not here for one-sided conversations or rushed expectations.
I’m in an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) marriage, looking for casual connections, fun, and learning experiences. I’m demisexual, which means I need chemistry and connection before anything physical happens. I love to flirt—but flirting is not consent or a promise that we’ll meet up. If I do decide to meet you, it’s because we’ve built something worth exploring.
Turn-Ons & What I Love
✔ Praise & body positivity
✔ Dominance—pull my hair (in the right spot), grab my body, put me where you want me
✔ Restraints, toys
✔ Sensory play, impact play, talking about kinks
✔ Lingerie, head-to-toe touching, massage
✔ Accents, long hair, beards, strong hands
✔ Weirdos, oddities, and people who are authentically themselves
✔ Deep conversations—tell me about the universe, your beliefs, your desires
✔ Puns, jokes, poems, and clever flirting
What I’m Not Into
❌ ***, ***, pressure to respond
❌ Bad hygiene, pushy attitudes, people who don’t respect my time
❌ Over-explaining ENM/poly to newbies—I want experienced partners because I’m here to learn not teach.
❌ STIs—I get tested regularly and expect the same
❌ Republicans—no thanks
❌ People who lead with “let me fuck you” instead of conversation or something more suave.
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Want My Attention?
Send me something fun. Be smart, punny, funny, and honest. Intriguing questions, a joke, an interesting story, a sexy scenario—those things catch my eye. And send me pictures! (Of your face too). If we click, we click. If we don’t, that’s okay. Let’s move on. I don’t owe anyone a response, and I take my time replying.
I’m here for fun, connection, body positivity, and good vibes. I have two kids and a busy life, so don’t expect me to be glued to my inbox. If you’re someone who wants to flirt, play, and explore—without weird pressure or expectations—then let’s talk and see where things go.